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Helen Aspley's avatar

This really resonates with me. Over the years (and various career incarnations) I have found this to be the most powerful question to ask myself when trying to make an important decision or simply having a wobble! It always seems to pare everything back to what actually matters and get rid of the background noise. A book I read, called 'This Year Will Be Different' by Domonique Bertolucci has some interesting things to say on a similar theme.

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Jenna Vandenberg's avatar

Oh! I'll have to check out that book :)

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Laura Spargo's avatar

You are so right about the elimination of background noise, Helen. Thanks for sharing your experiences with returning back to your 'why' - and for the book recommendation. I am adding this to my to-read list too :)

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SEMH Education's avatar

This is a great post, Laura (I'm catching up on Substack reading, can you tell? 🤣)

I always thought the why was a big of a 'meme' but I've used this technique to drill down into my why, and you're right, it really does bring up some interesting stuff!

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